Some days..

Some days...well most everyday, you reflect on the journey...the years of trial and triumph.  Does the reflection 'pain' get easier or lighter?   Yes, it does..yet indeed there are those very heavy recall or revisit moments.  But some recall gives you a smile..a snapshot moment that warms the heart and soul...
Abbey and I, we are carving out our changed or 'new' life..I think we are doing OK. Having good days. We are 13 months removed from Becky's passing..and need I say, we carry, we harbor the wonderful, unconditional love and memory of Becky..Her indelible, immense and immeasurable print on our lives..The demands of life will not retreat; the work, school, bill-paying, and other responsibilities...ya just have to learn or discern just what is important , what may have consequence on health and safety, or finances, and what will not...and while doing this try to never forget how to enjoy and celebrate the gift of life here on earth...as difficult as it may be..and we all know, life can get soul-searingly difficult, one must try to give a big shout-out on the days that went well..or had a measure of accomplishment, or even simple chores were done..a good trip or vacation was realized, or a good meal was shared with friends and family..Hope you are well..Good health and many, many blessings to you..

Bill and Abbey
PS. Thought this was a sweet pic of remembrance...