After 5 weeks....finally, Becky was able to hug her daughter..she and Abbey embraced for what seemed to be 5 long minutes..no words said..just a silent hug, puncuated with tears, especially from Becky. This is a medicine that cannot be described..NO value can be assessed..it penetrates the heart and soul immediately..thus a split second effect to the patient.
WE all chatted for a little over an hour or so, before Becky had to go back to her room and get connected to her rolling 'medical tower'..Abbey and I went out for a bite to eat, then it was back for more time with Mom..more chatting. catching up, then a 'good bye see you next time hug' to put the exclamation point on the day. Becky said she now felt so content, so calm..She would sleep so good tonight, and Abbey was so thankful to see Mommy. She liked her bald head and loved the wig Becky chose. "Nice hair Mom, really looks good on you!"..It was a surreal, yet so real moment.
We held hands in prayer, and thanked God we could have this time. Thankful a physician saw the stable 'numbers' Becky has been supporting, and thus gave the approval for this family gathering. He knew she needed it and he was correct. He knew the inestimable value of a Mother/patient holding her daughter.
Onward forward. Praise God from whom all blessings flow..
Talk again soon..Celebrate embrace life..
Bill, Becky & Abbey
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Oh, this is wonderful. yes, I need a hug from my kids, too.
ReplyDeleteGet well, Becky!
Good Morning to my dear family in LAX.
ReplyDeleteUp early to read the blog. What a great tool to keep us informed. I know that the time with Abbey was so special. I feel encouraged about the progress and know your faith and optimism will get you through this. This I believe! Keep smiling.
Love , Jan